purge 'til you drop

My friend and I spent another four hours today digging through stuff, pitching and sorting.  We work together well with little conversation required except "does it stay."  She emptied the shredder multiple times and we made some headway on the scary back room.  It's half empty now.  I remember the process following my parents' death and it was a real chore going through 60 years worth of stuff.  We got ripped off by the sale lady, but I won't go there because I try to stay positive.  Let's just say I had to BUY something that was supposed to go to me because of her ethics.  It was taken out of my part of the sale proceeds.  

God is providing me, one day at a time, with what I need.  I've let go of the agenda that I had such a tight control on for long and just go where the spirit leads.  There's a lot of peace in that.  One day there's not squat but other days are an adventure.  I've always been one to stick to a schedule, mainly because of the hospital.  You don't play in that kind of job.  

I just got a text from my rehab buddy and they're working her hard which is what she needs if she's going to be able to go home.  If you don't use it you lose it. I feel like a part of the staff there as many times as I've visited.  I know right where the social worker's office is!

Weather permitting, I will hit 412.  Or maybe body permitting.  That little workout today kicked my butt.  ^j^

killing us softly

I just read about the arrest of the Chinese CEO in Canada and all I could do was shake my head and ask "wtf."  Our relations are already strained with this country to which we owe billions on top of billions and the trade war isn't helping matters.  But who cares about how all of this affects we the people?  Um.  I do.  

I found myself 9.15 in the hole today so I deposited my last ten bucks to avoid an overdraft charge.  Must.Check.Daily.  I'm trying my best to get a grip on this thing.  If they cut my SS somebody might as well rent me a room.  I honestly don't see that happening because everybody in the country would revolt and end up on the White House steps looking for food and shelter.  It's a slippery slope, as is.  

There is wintry mix in the forecast for the weekend which bums me out because I wanted to go to Jackson and see the girls.  We shall see what Tennessee weather brings.  It has its' own way of throwing you a curve.  

Tis the season to be jolly!  Or not.  The holidays are a very tough time for many for a variety of reasons.  The "first" Christmas, birthday, etc following the death of a loved one is always hard.  So is being poor and not having enough to eat.  Or spending a holiday in jail or away from family in the service.  At the end of the day, we're all just people who want to be happy.  

If the planets line up just right mama dog and all six puppies will be adopted tomorrow.  Keep your fingers and toes crossed.  

Peace ~

new kicks

My 40 dollar non-Brooks shoes came in today's mail and they feel just fine.  I met my friend at her vortex of an ex-home and we silently went at the mess on a mission.  It is time to purge, for more than just me and her.  Lorna's doing it too.

I was visiting  the nursing home prior to that and was blessed with being able to watch the funeral for President Bush.  I did not know the story about him being shot down until his biographer detailed it.  It was odd seeing all those presidents and their wives sitting together in silent tribute.  I think I caught Trump napping but I can't swear to it.  

Evidently FedEx is so overloaded they're hiring drivers from other companies because a Penske truck just brought Reaves' toys.  As for the puppy adoption, the wheels are turning for all six to go to a women's prison to be raised by inmates.  I think that is such a cool thing.  They are also working on a home for mama dog if they can't go as a package.  Thank goodness for people who actually care, ya know?  High five Amanda.  

Bubba is bringing my Snoopy tree today and I've already got the lights ready.  Y'all stay happy and healthy and keep the faith ^j^

spontaneous as heck

I was up this morning just piddling around when I got a call from a friend who wanted me to ride shotgun to Jackson.  I had nothing planned so there we went for lunch at Rafferty's, a visit with Lauren at Best Western and a stop by Macy's.  Then she hit up Sam's while I sat in the car trying to make phone calls. Traffic was light and it goes a whole lot quicker in a nice car with somebody else driving. Just saying.

 I'm knee deep in trying to arrange a transport for a litter of puppies to an agency in Union City to be sent to Nashville.  I don't know the owner, but these puppies have kind of invaded Mamye's porch so she's trying to help the neighbor find homes.  

FedEx called again because my "new" road name still won't track on GPS.  It happens every time.  USPS, 911 and everybody else is on board but the package delivery is a different story.  I think UPS has finally figured it out since I'm right down the road.  My mailman delivered (another) ceritifed letter from the IRS.  All I can say is wait your turn.  Trump spends 1300 an hour on bullshit.  So do all the other government officials and agencies.  

It was also a pleasure to meet Terracita today, Lauren's work pal.  She's as sweet as pie and is taking good care of the gal with the bad leg.  She's doing remarkably well for one week post op, already back at work.  

That's all for now but tomorrow is another day.  We shall see what it brings ^j^

nothing like a card in the mail

I rarely send cards because I never have my s**t together enough to do it but I do so love to get them.  When I got home from town I found my first two Christmas cards.  Christmas card people either do it religiously or not at all.  I can name you the ones I've gotten a card from every year for the last ten.  As a bonus I got the last two issues of Blue Ridge Life with that card.  One of these days.....I'll make it there.

I stopped by the funeral home to meet their new therapy dog and she is to die for gorgeous and sweet as pie.  Just a pup.  She will go for training at about 4 months to become a service dog.  I just think that's the coolest thing EVER.  Then I traveled down to Sunflower Health's Manic Monday and open house.  Got some cute cute glasses for 4 bucks and a light lunch.  I could spend the rent in that store, just saying.  They were having mini-reflexology sessions but she was busy so I moved on.  

I checked on a car I've had my eye on that is low mileage and owner driven.  Red, I'm saying.  The price is reasonable but sadly out of my reach at the moment.  We shall see what January brings my way financially.  I will be forced to hire an accountant this year for the first time ever due to all the stuff that's happened since December 6th, 2017.  

Y'all stay merry and bright ^j^

coulda' shoulda' wouda'

I think often about how we got from there to here, politically and otherwise.  9/11 was a pivotal point for this country.  Thousands signed up for duty in Iraq and Afghanistan in the wake of "weapons of mass destruction" supposedly masterminded by the man found hiding in a hole.  I believe with all my heart that the size of this deployment was way overboard and planned by Dick Cheney to make himself rich via government military contracts.  Our entire country was in shock and recovery mode and everybody wanted justice.  Only it wasn't the one they found.  It was the one whom they killed under the Obama administration who was behind all of it.  Go figure.  I don't blame Dubya at all.  He was hoodwinked.  

Fast forward to 2018 where said veterans are not receiving the benefits they were promised at enlistment.  Many of them have extensive PTSD from the violence and harsh conditions they endured.  I have a friend who served in Iraq and he has been fortunate enough to spend a year as a contractor there before going back to school to become a nurse.  And soon a CRNA.  He was married to a gunner and when they got out, it wasn't what it was before.  He is now happy and healthy and living the dream.

I don't know about y'all but I bought gas for 1.95 today.  Take that, Kuwait Of course the down side is that fracking is tearing this country to pieces so we can become "independent" from foreign oil.  How about ethanol made from hemp?  That's a good cash crop and doesn't harm the environment like carbon.  Just a thought.  

I skipped church today but it was hanging of the greens so when I go back it will be all Christmas looking.  Instead, I visited my friend again at the hospital.  Things are looking up!  I'm unemployed for a couple of weeks so if you need errands run give me a call....seriously.  I've gotten used to the extra money and it actually allowed me to buy presents for Reaves.  Am I grateful?  You bet your sweet ass.

Light a candle for Advent ^j^

ho ho ho

I never go shopping but I have a grandchild to buy for now so I hit up the mall to look for clothes for her and tennis shoes for me.  I scored two really cute outfits for her but no luck on the shoes.  I guess I'm gonna' have to budget some more before that happens.  I found some that were reasonably priced and I wanted them but someone had STOLEN my size.  There was one on display and an empty box.  Old salesgirl was pissed to say the least.  

It was time to meet Carol for lunch by then so we shared an appetizer sampler from Applebee's where we almost froze to death.  It was a madhouse at Bath and Body so I just cruised on by.  As I passed center court I saw all these cute little kids having their picture made with Santa.  I don't think Reaves has seen him yet but I'll bet 'ya she will grab his glasses and beard.  

It rained hard all night and when I left this morning I found myself driving through some very deep water at the bottom of the lane. The old Camry almost choked out on me but got me through.  All of the water from this hill drains down to that spot during heavy rain.  It has also been known to be swallowed by Forked Deer backwater.  

Checking on Lauren I found that she was in the shower with help so she's improving.  It's still balmy here like it normally is unless there's a cold snap.  It is rare for us to drop below freezing and stay there for a week, but it happens.  

Y'all spare your nerves and shop online or local small business.  It's worth it, I promise.  Happy holidays kids.  Enjoy every minute of it.

De-stress ~